Centenarian sisters Shirley Hodes and Ruth Sweedler recently gave a wonderful interview with CNBC. In the piece, they pointed out that they don’t credit crossword puzzles for their sharp minds and longevity. Instead, it’s simpler life lessons like doing what you love and pursuing your curiosity and talents that have made them reach their 100th birthday and beyond with ease and sophistication.
“I’m not that old!” said 106-year-old Hodes. “I don’t feel old, that’s the truth.” Her 103-year-old sister Ruth shares the same conviction. “I don’t feel that I’m old,” Sweedler said.
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Perhaps unsurprisingly, both sisters stress the significance of family and meaningful social relationships. Hodes and Sweedler grew up in a family of eight, and they point out that familial ties are one of the most meaningful experiences in one’s lifetime. “The people you’re surrounded with, friends, relatives, family,” Hodes stated in the interview. “That’s what you’ll remember the most.”
They also found that having a happy marriage was important. They look back at their husbands, both of who have passed away, with warmth and affection. Hodes even shares some advice on how to connect with people, stating that curiosity is the key: “I was always so interested in hearing people’s stories, backgrounds. They’re full of surprises.”
“Older people can get absorbed in themselves when you have ailments and such. That can make it hard to have an open mind,” Hodes pointed out. But she recommends pursuing your knowledge thirst with all your strength. And she doesn't just talk the talk... For example, right after retiring, Hodes took an audit class at her local college and aced it, even though she had to sit in the first row to hear and see the teacher.
Sweedler is also very proud of her work in the world. She was a self-taught actress at a local theater and was very involved in the local synagogue and Jewish organizations. “Not that I’m so religious,” Sweedler stated. “But I’m aware that I’m Jewish, and I like being involved.” Ruth’s example shows that any work – be it paid labor or volunteering – can help you find meaning and connection in life.
Reflecting on life’s missed chances, Hodes said the only thing she regrets is not having the opportunity to go to college as a young woman. Since Hodes and Sweedler were the two youngest siblings of eight in a family of immigrant parents, resources were sometimes limited. “We had to be careful because there were so many of us,” Hodes explains, wisely adding that “you can’t have everything.” Sweedler, meanwhile, misses long walks and travel, wishing her body was as strong as her brain.
Despite the few regrets and missed chances, however, the sisters point out that they’re very grateful, lucky, and blessed for their achievements and daily pleasures – both past and present. Hodes: “My secret? I’m a lucky person. Although I’ve had illnesses and problems, I’ve overcome them. I’m in decent health, enjoying health, thankful for a wonderful life. That sustains me and keeps me going.”
Sources: CNBC Interview, YouTube Cover Image
